Hey guys, it is your homeboy, Eddie Schwaggs and this is Relationship Corner. How was your weekend? And how is your week going? Hope everything is going well. Today, let’s talk about Cheating and how it’s affects us
According Long man Dictionary of Contemporary English, to cheat on your partner, is to be unfaithful to your husband, wife or sexual partner by secretly having sex with someone else.
Studies have shown that the rate of divorce is high these days, most of the time, a partner catches his or her spouse cheating. There are many reasons people cheat. Some cheat because their partner does not satisfy them, some cheat because they are tempted to, some cheat because they are blackmailed into doing it, there are so many reasons people cheat.
Cheating for any reason is wrong because it destroys the trust you have built over time and when caught the shame will be quite unbearable. Some angry partners who caught their partner cheating, go as far as killing them and their lovers.
On so many levels, cheating affects you. When you have sex, you give a part of yourself to your partner and when you are sleeping around, you may lose your self worth. Studies have also shown that most women grow attached to their sexual partners, so a woman cheats, it likely she becomes attached to their lover, which will lead to complications in her relationship with her partner. Spiritually, sex is the uniting of two bodies and souls, so it is spiritually unsafe to cheat. Traditions and culture also frown on cheating, as they have punishments for offenders such as madness or even death.
But most of all, when you cheat, you hurt our partner deeply. You don’t only betray their trust, you also hurt their self worth, pride and their capacity to love. Just like people cheat for several reasons, people are also affected in so many ways, when they are cheated on. Often times, the marriage or relationship or engagement is broken off.
So when next you want to cheat, think about how shattered your partner will be, think about the traditional implications, think about the fact you may even lose your life if an angry partner show up at the wrong time; and make the right decision. That is a wrap for this week, you can reach me up on Instagram on I _am_Schwaggs and on Twitter at EddieSchwaggs and you can email at [email protected] Till next week, I remain your boy Eddie Schwaggs and this is Relationship Corner. Bye