Hey guys, it is your boy Eddie Schwaggs and this, my friends is Relationship Corner. Here we discuss everything and anything considering relationships. How are preparations for Valentine’s day? I am going to use the church excuse. Lool. Today, I want to talk about the topic “Men have feelings too.”
For centuries, men have been considered to be the strongest of the two genders. They are considered to be a stoic bunch, which makes it a taboo for a man to cry. They are meant to fearless and be ready to sacrifice their existence for the “weaker vessels” which are the women. The ideal man is so be to be tall, muscular, appear dangerous and have the air of mystery around him. But these are all fallacies, men have feelings too!!!
Men cry, bleed, feel vulnerable, can be scared, can be helpless and feel a myraid of emotions. Men are human beings too. Some ladies go as far as hurting their man and not apologize because they are of the opinion that “men don’t feel pain” which is a big lie. Men loved to be pampered just like as women loved to treated as Queens.
Some women are funny.
They buy a pair of boxers for their man on his birthday, singlets on Valentine’s day and expensive socks on Christmas day, and they expect diamonds and gold from the same man. How does that work?. Men like beautiful things too, there are tons of men stuff you as lady can get for your man and he will really appreciate it.
Truth to be told, Ladies, the way you treat your man will determine the way he will treat you. Treat him like a king and he will make you his Queen. Unlike ladies, guys are easily impressed. Take him to favorite place or event, cook his favorite meal, take him out on a romantic dinner (yes, it is not a crime to take a guy out), and do so many things for him, with him and on him.
But most importantly, try to understand him. Try to understand what makes him tick, be there for him when he is vulnerable (men are not rocks they have their down moments), give him all of you, get that notion out of your head that women are the weaker vessels so they should only receive.
If you do all this, you will find out how amazing and romantic your man can be. He treat like a precious jewel because he knows you know who he is. He will never want to lose you, he will take care of you. So this Valentine’s day, surprise your man, take him out, buy something for me, plan something sweet for him.
That is all for this week but remember a woman can bring out a man out of a beast and a beast out of a man. Which do you prefer man or beast?. Please don’t forget to comment and share your views on this topic. I am Eddie Schwaggs and this is Relationship Corner.