Hey guys, how are you doing? I hope you are all fine. It’s Eddie Schwaggs and this is Relationship Corner. The corner where we discuss anything and everything concerning relationship.
Intimacy, the sweetness of Relationship, is the topic for today. Intimacy is a close friendship or familiarity between two people. An intimate relationship is one that involves physical and or emotional intimacy between two people.
According to www.focusonfamilyhealth.com, intimacy is “into me see”. Taking it from focusonfamilyhealth.com, intimacy is the blending of two souls on a deeper level. It is more than just being in the same place with a particular person, or a physical attraction between two people. It is more than friendship.
It is more than sex!!!.
Everyone craves intimacy, everyone wants to meet someone that will understand their existence, the reason they do things, their dreams, their pains, and hopes. Often times, many women offer sex to have intimacy, and many men demand sex for a taste of intimacy. They are disappointed after they have had sex, that the sex was just sex and nothing more. Intimacy is not sex or sex doesn’t guarantee intimacy.
To build a intimate relationship, there are some things, you and your lover must do( because relationship is one – sided, both lovers must do this together).
I. Love yourself
Many people don’t love their selves, they depend solely on their partners to love them for them. This is wrong because to get intimate with your partner, you must learn to love your self first so that you can give yourself undiluted to your partner.
II. “Into me see “
The key of intimacy is opening yourself to your partner. Let him or her see the real you. Let him or her see your frustration, your anger, your happiness, your pains, the every thing that makes you. This will foster an intimate relationship with your partner.
III. Ask questions
Ask your partner questions about himself or herself, you can play games like 20 questions just to learn a thing or two about your partner.
IV. Be vulnerable
Let your partner see through your facade. Everyone has a vulnerable side, let your partner see your insecurities and encourage him or her to show you their vulnerable side. This will foster a beautiful intimate relationship.
V. Share Childhood memories
Studies have shown that sharing memories of your childhood helps strengthened intimate relationships. It helps your partner to understand you and why you do the things you do.
There are many more ways to foster intimate relationships, these are some of the basic ones. Intimate relationships are scarce, and that is one of the reasons why so many relationships fail these days.
Intimacy is one sweetest thing anyone can ever experience in a relationship, build an intimate relationship with your partner so you have a beautiful and fulfilling relationship. That is all for today, it has fun, writing this, don’t forget to comment and like. I remain your boy Eddie Schwaggs and this is Relationship
Corner. Have a blessed week ahead.