Good evening peeps, how are you all doing? I’ve missed you guys a lot. Don’t mind me, I know I disappeared for quite a while but hey, I am back now and still your friend in relationship matters. I am Eddie Schwaggs and this my friends, is Relationship Corner; where we talk about relationships in every possible way.
On this wonderful evening, let’s talk about “When the Fire is dying”. Relationships can be the sweetest honey sometimes and it can be as sour as vinegar. When couples let their relationship lose its taste, the result is, one or both partners will feel hurt, unloved or/and caged.
Relationship is filled with ups and down, but when there are no ups, no downs, no spark, there is a reason for alarm. There are several signs that a relationship is going off the tracks, among these are:
Poor Communication : When there is no easy, tension free relationship or talks of the future, then the relationship is hitting the rocks.
I Love You : The words “I love you” becomes strange, and is shy away from, then the relationship is dying.
Tolerance : If it becomes difficult for both parties to accommodate each other, there is a huge problem.
Meeting : As the saying goes, “Out of sight, out of mind”, when couple don’t see very often, love will go sour like spoilt milk.
Intimacy : When intimacy because a thing of the past, when there are no “moments” that a couple share together then there is a cause for alarm.
Trust : When there is no trust, there is a big issue. Trust is one of the most important ingredients for building a relationship, if it is lacking, the relationship will be a soup without salt.
When you see some or all of these signs in your relationship then it is about to expire. When the flame is about go out, you can either let it or add more fuel. The best thing to do to save your relationship, is to talk to your partner. If your love for each other can’t save your relationship, then you both have to move on, instead of enslaving yourself because you don’t want to hurt your partner. But if your love for each other can save your relationship, both of you; not one of you, both of you should try to rekindle the flame of romance and love in your relationship. Ignite the spark by communicating frequently, going out often, Cuddling and doing the things you guys used to do before your relationship went sour. Doing these and more will spice up your relationship and give you a love filled life.
That is all for today guys, please don’t forget to like, comment and share. I remain your host, Eddie Schwaggs and this is Relationship Corner.