It is exactly a year today since Banky W and wife Adesua Etomi had their traditional wedding in Lagos.
In a post shared on his Instagram page, Banky said the best decision he has made so far in his adult life was waiting to find the right person as a wife.
In his post, he advised that people should endeavour not to give in to pressures when on the journey to finding a life partner.
Read what he wrote below
By far the best decision I have made in my adult life, was to wait until I found my wife. People will pressure you and try to make you feel inadequate or incomplete.. all because you’re not living according to their own mental timetable. Ignore them.
Focus on your journey, your happiness, and on making yourself a better person. My prayer is that you will discover, like I did, that the right person is worth waiting for.
Mrs W… I’m still amazed that I get to call you mine. Thank you for loving me. Thank you for building with me. Thank you for believing in me and for inspiring me to be a better man. My purpose partner, my rock, my destiny, my Shug, my wife, my life… Happy tradiversary Skuu. Love you SCATTER. #BAAD2017 #BAAD2018
Interestingly, the message did not go down with a concerned fan and he penned down this message in response:
“Well said but isn’t the praises on social media beginning to get too much thereby making it look boring? Stop trying to show d world u have a perfect marrige instead focus on how to keep making d marriage better in real life.
And pls hope u shower all this love and proclamations on her offline just d way u say it online. I know some mumu will say i am a hater bt its d truth. Most of d marriages i hav seen last dont indulge in all this over praises on social media.
My people say if ur yam is very white, u cover and eat it privately b4 people of d world bring in bad luck to ur marriage.wish u All d best though.”