It’s dependably somewhat peculiar and a little great when closest companions get together. I watched The Flash and considering, “Iris and Barry can’t get together! It’d be excessively peculiar! They realize each other too well as of now. How could a sentimental association with your closest companion even work?!”
In any case, examines demonstrate that relational unions have twofold the fulfilment if the life partners state their life partner is their closest companion, and for some valid justifications. The greatest one being that couples who state they wedded their closest companion have an under 30% rate of separation.
Possibly you’re contemplating diving in and asking out your present closest companion or are dealing with winding up closest companions with your present accomplice. In any case, realize that the prizes of the wedding your closest companion are high.
1. They know you.
And I mean, really really know you. They know you get cranky in the mornings or when you don’t get to the gym often enough and that mashed potato is your favourite comfort food. They know that you dream of being a VP at a Fortune 500 company and that you hate asparagus and taking selfies. They also know your most annoying quirks, like the fact that you like to say the word ‘like’ like way too much or that you constantly forget to turn the lights off when you leave a room.
2. You can truly be yourself.
Similar to number 1, you don’t ever have to pretend with your BFF. You are free to just be. You can tell them your fears, dreams, worries, hopes, and desires. You can bring your true self and know that they already accept it.
3. You already completely trust one another.
We’ve all had those friends who will blab about you behind your back the moment you leave a room, but your BFF would never do that. They’re the ones who always have your back and always have your best interest at heart. They’re the ones who will run to your defence the moment someone says something bad about you, but also be able to tell you lovingly and kindly how you maybe should sort of think about apologizing to your boss for that thing you said.
4. You have things in common already.
You may not love the exact same things, but we all have things in common with our best friends. Maybe it’s that you love the camaraderie of fans at sporting events or dishing about what the crazies at work are doing. Maybe you’re both avid readers—except you like mystery/thrillers and they like romances. Maybe you both love attending church or training for triathlons.
5. You have some things, not in common.
Because you feel fully secure with each other, you also feel secure to be your own person. That means maybe you go on a fishing trip with the guys or she spends an afternoon gabbing it up at the hair salon. Maybe you watch football while she turns on The Bachelor in another room. You get to be free to do that because you don’t have to hide or pretend you’re anyone else. You know that the “we” you have is built on both of you being whole and happy.
6. You’ll have a best friend for life.
Whatever happens, good or ugly, you know they’ll always be there. Life will be an adventure because, whether it be snorkelling with sharks, starting a business together, or embarking on the craziness of parenthood, you’ll get to do it with your best friend. The person who always lifts you up and wants you to be the best possible for you. The person who makes life fun.
Best friends make life great in both big and little ways. They build you up when you need it. They hold you up when you can’t do it yourself, and they catch you when you fall short. What better person to spend the rest of your life with than the very person who knows you the most intimately and loves you anyway?
Reference: Zoosk Dating App
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