Don’t tell people how to heal – Toke Makinwa backups Tonto Dikeh’s Social Media Meltdown

Nigeria’s most criticized Vblogger, Toke Makinwa has thrown her weight behind Nollywood  most controversial actress Tonto Dikeh over her social media meltdown concerning her 2 year failed marriage to Olakunle Churchill.

The media personality stated that we are all tested differently, broken differently, our scars fade differently and we heal different. She further added that everyone should be allowed to grieve how they want, when they want and however long they want to.

Toke Makinwa who defended Tonto Dikeh in her post as she told Nigerians not to tell people how to heal, wrote;

We are all tested differently, broken differently, our scars fade differently and we heal different. Everyone should be allowed to grieve how they want, when they want and however long they want to. Stop giving expiry dates to the pain you did not endure. If you cannot be kind, say nothing. It’s ok to be quiet, try it sometime, you won’t die.

You don’t have to understand everyone’s journey or life’s choices but it’s your duty to respect it. Life visits us all at the end of the day and while you play judge let’s hope when it’s your turn, you remain standing to handle it half as strong or as perfect as you try to claim be. #fridayinspiration #Judgenot#Bekind