She is still your Queen

You better treat her like your queen, if you want to be treated like a king.” – Moosa Rahat

Men are often regarded as hunters, they use everything in their arsenal to win the heart of the girl they love. Some men even go as far as becoming foolish for love. When a man wants a woman, he tries to impress her with everything he has and some men even try to impress with things they don’t have, like using their employer’s car to drive their new girlfriend around town. Some buy the most expensive of gifts, others become poets wooing their lovers with sweet rhymes. For some all these come to an end, once they have gotten the woman, some men even stop taking care of their women.

Don’t abandon your woman after she has accepted to be with you. Don’t treat her shabbily because she has accepted you to lead her. If it is because you have gotten her, you don’t call her, you don’t text her, you don’t give her attention, you feel she should understand that you just got that contract, or she should understand that your job is tasking, or she should already know that your friends need you more, when you do these, you are destroying your relationship slowly. Getting her to say yes to your proposal is not the end of the road for you and her, you both have to make conscious efforts to make the relationship work and grow. Women crave attention and love, and for you to keep her by your side without her cheating on you, you have to give her these things. Even if you spoil her with gifts and money, it will never replace you in her life if she truly loves you. It’s important to always bear in mind that you are the one to lead the relationship where it will go.

Woo her everyday like you just met her, treat her with so much affection and she will never want to leave your side, still buy her gifts, take her to the places she loves. As a guy, for a relationship to move forward, it lies in your hands. Keep the fire of love burning in her heart, let romance still be alive in your relationship. Kiss her unexpectedly, play with her, treat her better than you met her, do things with/for her, let her feel better and happier than before she met you. Communicate with her effectively, be vulnerable with her, do everything in your power to make your relationship with her work. Love her more than life, treat like a queen, make her feel special, don’t gamble with her feelings. She was the one who got your eyes among the many women, treat her like the rare gem she is.

A long lasting and beautiful relationship is made up of two people who make conscious efforts to make their relationship work, do your part to help your relationship grow. This has been Relationship Corner with Eddie Schwaggs