Christabel Egbenya, a Nollywood actress, has warned friends not to call or inform her if they come across her husband and any side chick.
She can’t die because of a man, and she will never fight her husband’s side chic for any reason.
Christabel Egbenya said: “Any friend that calls to tell me she saw my man with his side chic in a hotel wants to kill me. No! Don’t tell me, I don’t want to know. Even if you truly saw them, I don’t want to know. If I am the one that caught them together, I will not fight the girl in the public. The person I have issues with is my husband. I’ll go home and wait for him to come back, then we can sort it there. Because my husband already knows who I am. Why would I chase the girl or my husband, when I know we live in same house?”
Christabel Egbenya who is also a producer added, ‘I love my life so much, if anything happens who would I leave my kids for? I can not play with my life just because of a man, it is not possible. If anything happens to you, the man would only mourn you for a while and then move on to the next woman.
Women should learn to love themselves and be happy with themselves first. I will not trade myself because of a man. I love myself so much, after me, my child comes before my husband and not the other way round.’
After many years in the industry and seeing what happens to the relationship of her colleagues, Christabel Egbenya decided to keep her marriage and husband’s identity off social media.
She gives more reasons she opted to marry secretly, “Well, even before I got married I am not that kind of person that loves to post everything on social media. Especially relationships. Then again, a lot is happening on social media; dramatic relationship breakups, marriage and divorce. I decided to safeguard my own by keeping it off social media. I don’t love drama. Some people were even saying that I don’t love my husband and that I am not proud of him. He is a very young, cute and handsome. Some of you know him already through my WhatsApp status. I love him so much and I am proud of him but I will not show him off on social media, it’s not my thing. Let me live my private life in peace,” she said.