In a society where double standards regarding infidelity are common, Nigerian media personality Tolanibaj has fearlessly stated her position.
Tolanibaj, known for her appearance on Big Brother Naija reality TV show and her career as a disc jockey, confidently revealed that she would retaliate with infidelity if her partner ever cheated on her.
She further explained that if the cheating spouse did not bring any value to her life, she would end the relationship.
However, if the cheating partner was beneficial to her personal growth, she would consider staying in the unhealthy relationship.
Tolanibaj unveiled her stance during the first episode of the Bahd And Boujee Podcast, which she co-hosts with actress Moet Abebe.
She stated that:
“Crying in a Lamborghini is better than crying in a tricycle.”
“I will not go through your phone… Maybe at the beginning, I will warn you. When I warn guys it might come off as a threat but I’m really keeping it 100. It may not be a good way of living. It may be very toxic but it works for me.
“If you’re empowering me and you are useful, and you cheat on me, no problem. Just continue playing your role- empowering me.
“But if you cheat on me and you are not adding value to me, what am I still doing there? Do you get it? That’s how I see it. I would prefer to cry in a Lamborghini than in a keke [tricycle].”
In the same podcast, OAP Moet Abebe stated that “She can’t date a man that lives on the mainland”
Moet Abebe presented her viewpoint on dating, specifically in the context of physical location in Nigeria, during a podcast talk with Tolani Baj, a former Big Brother Naija competitor.