Doyinsola Anuoluwapo David, popularly known as Doyin, a former contestant on the Big Brother Naija reality show, has expressed her decision to never become a full-time housewife if she decides to marry.
Her reasoning is based on the concern that her spouse may undergo a transformation and no longer provide for her and their children.
Doyin conveyed her thoughts in a video shared on her Instastory, stating that men hold a higher regard for a wife who is financially independent rather than one who solely focuses on household duties.
She said, “I will never be a full-time housewife. Number one, people change. What if he [my future husband] changes? What if he meets another girl and then he stops catering for me and my kids?
“Number two, there’s this level of respect that comes with having your own money like when your partner knows you can provide. You don’t need to ask them for everything. You can handle certain things in the house. And I would really like to have that respect in my marriage.
“And third, there are certain things that are out of our control. What if he dies? God forbid. We don’t pray for that but what if he dies? How am I going to sustain myself and my kids? So, sustainability is a very big thing for me. At least, I would have a business.”
