Big Brother Naija alumnus Doyinsola Anuoluwapo David, also known as Doyin, recently shared some relationship advice for women, urging them not to feel entitled to their partners’ money until they are officially married.
Doyin stressed that any financial support or gifts given by a man to his partner in a relationship should be seen as acts of generosity, not obligations.
Doyin made this point when offering advice to a female fan who was dumped by her boyfriend for accusing him of being stingy.
Sharing the screenshot of the message via her Instagram story, she wrote: “I don’t think he’s stingy because he doesn’t randomly give you money. If you have a man that gives to you when you ask then you’re lucky to have a responsible man but he doesn’t owe you random money just because you are his girlfriend. [sic].
“Until a man has married you, he is not obligated to be responsible for you….whatever he does is out of the generosity of his heart but you should never feel entitled to his money.
“Don’t let the internet deceive you, it’s nice to have a man that is intentional with his generosity but it’s not your birth right. There is nothing genetically programmed in a man that makes it easier for him to make money than a woman.
“It’s not easy to make money, so no one wants to keep spending ‘randomly’. If you need random money, please get a job.”
