Media personality Bolanle Olukanni has stirred conversation across social media after sharing her unique stance on dating and online boundaries.
In a recent statement, the award-winning TV host made it clear that when it comes to relationships, she prefers her partner to stay off her social media while she quietly keeps tabs on his — especially his Twitter account.
“If I’m dating someone, I don’t want them following my social media, but I want to see their social media,” Bolanle said.
“Ladies, check your man’s Twitter account!”
Known for her strong voice on women’s issues and modern relationships, Bolanle’s candid advice has sparked a mix of reactions online.
While some applauded her for encouraging women to stay alert and protect their emotional interests, others criticized the double standard, calling it a one-sided approach to trust.
Fans and followers quickly took to the comments to share their thoughts, with many admitting they’ve quietly done the same — keeping an eye on their partner’s digital footprint without necessarily inviting them into theirs.
This isn’t the first time Bolanle has been outspoken about modern dating dynamics. Whether it’s tackling emotional intelligence, social expectations, or now digital boundaries, she continues to use her platform to highlight the realities many women face in today’s dating world.
What do you think about her take — is it a smart move or a red flag?
