Doyin David strongly cautions women against getting married without financial independence, stressing the importance of not relying on a man for money.
This advice comes after reality TV star Linda Ikeji’s decision to prioritize financial self-sufficiency over depending on men for financial support.
Doyin concurs with Ikeji’s beliefs, asserting that women should prioritize their own financial independence.
She wrote;
“The biggest mistake you can make as a young lady is depending completely on a man. Attaining independence should be the first thing on your mind….before love, marriage or kids. MONEY FIRST!
If you don’t have your own money, a reasonable amount of money saved up. You’re NOT ready for marriage and most definitely NOT ready to have kids. You need your own money!!
Even when you have your money sef, after marriage just have one child first and watch what type of father he is before you start giving birth like a chicken. Only have the number of kids you know you can afford to cater for on your own. Life happens!
Don’t ever believe that lie of divorce is not an option because it is! We don’t pray for it but life happens. There is no better back up plan than having your own money! Not your husband’s money, YOUR OWN MONEY!”
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