Tolanibaj has sparked conversations online after sharing her blunt opinion on infidelity and relationships during a recent podcast appearance.
The reality TV star and DJ made it clear that she does not believe in forgiving cheating partners, insisting that she would respond by doing the same.
“If you cheat on me, no matter how much I love you, I will cheat on you back on God,” she said during the discussion.
Tolanibaj explained that she prefers to be upfront in relationships and usually warns partners about her boundaries from the beginning.
“I like to warn,” she added.
“And even when I warn guys, it might come off as a threat, but I’m really keeping it 100.”
According to her, she believes in honesty and transparency, even if some people may consider her approach toxic.
The former Big Brother Naija housemate also stated that financial security and personal value play a role in how she handles relationships.
She suggested that she could tolerate certain situations differently depending on how much value a partner adds to her life.
“If you’re empowering me and you are useful, and you cheat on me, no problem. Just continue playing your role,” she said.
However, she added that she sees no reason to remain in a relationship where a cheating partner contributes nothing meaningful.
Tolanibaj also referenced her preference for financial comfort and stability, joking that it is better to “cry in a Lamborghini than in a tricycle.”
Her comments have since generated mixed reactions online, with some social media users praising her honesty while others criticized her stance on revenge cheating and relationships.
The media personality rose to fame after participating in Big Brother Naija and has since built a career in entertainment, influencing, and DJing.
