Why you should marry before you Japa – Media personalty Afam tells ladies

Twitter influencer called by the handle @AfamDeluxo, has opened a reality guised as an advice to Nigerian ladies.

The London based Nigerian, Afam called out Nigerian ladies to a bitter reality regarding the quest for an husband.

In his words, he said ladies should understand that they could earn all the money and assets abroad and still be frustrated from lack of husband or children.

He further extends that they shouldn’t hope on marrying from the abroad as men there are not reliable especially UK men.

Advicing them to embrace reality against the normal woke culture oozing in the Twitter space.

Afam asked them to succumb willingly to love , tells them not to be hard hearted.

Not neglecting that they should make plans for their Nigerian boyfriend to come abroad if they have one.

“As a single Nigerian babe that moved to the US, Canada, or the West, you have to be conscious about getting a man, coz you can easily be carried away with making all that money, and wake up one morning alone in your 50s, with a house, car, no child, no partner.We live in a world where a man can wake-up in his 70s, and always find a woman to wife, but unfortunately, it is not the same for women. Don’t let anybody deceive you. This is reality. Everybody needs somebody. While you are making that money, please make conscious efforts to find a man.Loneliness in the midst of so much wealth is very depr£ssing. It is even worset when you don’t have a child. Ask those experiencing it, it’s not fun. Again, make a very conscious effort to find a man while making all that money. This is coming from a place of love. If you like Insullt your fada. When you are done, go find yourself a man when you are done o Oh, let me add. Ladies, if you are planning japa and have that serious boyfriend in Nigeria, pls hold him tight. If possible, make sure you both japa together. If you can sponsor it, please do. Don’t japa alone thinking you gon find a man over there. Some might find, many won’t.For places like UK, it is difficult. Those boys there will f*ck you shege. UK boys are the real d*m#ns. Again, if you have a boyfriend, hold him tight and make sure y’all leave together. Life is all about r*sk. Whatever choice you make, be ready for the consequences. Udo!”

As a single Nigerian babe that moved to the US, Canada, or the West, you have to be conscious about getting a man, coz you can easily be carried away with making all that money, and wake up one morning alone in your 50s, with a house, car, no child, no partner. We live in

— Ajị bussu onye mpiawa azu🏳️‍🌈 (@AfamDeluxo) May 30, 2022