Anita Joseph, a Nollywood actress who weds Michael Olagunju, often known as MC Fish, her younger boyfriend, has provided some advice on how to have a happy and long-lasting marriage.
Marriage, in her opinion, is lovely—but only if you marry the right person.
“Marriage is sweet. Marriage is beautiful with the right person . Even with the right person Love is still not enough. Marriage is like a School you do not graduate from ,sometimes you even fail. I often tell people ,if you want to be married and stay married. You must put in the Work for it to work. Note ,it’s not the woman’s job alone”
The man has alot to play here. Two of you must work together to balance it. Sis /bro if you ain’t ready to put in work please,just stick with your ARABANKO. DDONOT GET MARRIED SHALLOM SHALLOM SHALLOM IN THE HIGHEST KPICHICOM,” she wrote.
Recall that Anita Joseph had warned wives to stop starving their husbands of their conjugal rights in the name of fasting.
The actress said this on Tuesday, December 27.
Taking to her Instagram page, AnitaJoseph wrote, “For all seasons and all Times..It is you. Women how do you do fasting for 20 Days and starve your Husband of s****x ! Even the Bible didn’t instruct you to do that Shallom. We don resume motivational talk oh ShALLOM SHALLOM SHALLOM !!”
It would be recalled that AnitaJoseph had mentioned the many benefits of having a good man as a life partner.
According to the filmmaker cum businesswoman, anyone who is lucky to marry a good man, her beauty glows better.
“When you marry a good man. Your beauty Radiates. God bless all the good husbands May God pave ways for them bless them,” she captioned the romantic photos she shot with her husband.
The Anambra State born Thespian cum brand ambassador has also admitted that celebrity marriage is not easy.
She also tells what keeps her strong despite the backlashes.
“Whenever, a colleague’s marriage crash, these online trolls will come to face me. One told me recently that it is remaining me. However, I feel pity for the people dragging me because they are giving me more reasons to post more romantic moments with my husband on social media. They won’t ever stop me from posting my happy moments, never. Celebrity marriage is not easy, we face a lot of pressure out there but you must be stubborn and insist that yours works. Again, I knew what I wanted before going into marriage and what my mother taught me about marriage is still embedded in me. She taught me to always shut up when husband is talking and not to talk back; especially in arguments. Two captains can’t be in one ship. Not like you can’t say your piece but there’s a time to pause and let him talk. These things are not easy but for two to work you must agree.”
Reacting to the speculations that she is married to a man who is over 10 years younger than she is, the curvy actress assured that her husband’s age doesn’t reflect in their marriage.
“When people try to mock me by saying I married a younger lover, I just laugh. It is very hilarious. You know people assume a lot, because I’m plumpy and he’s slim that’s why they feel that way, but it’s cool, we don’t care. Now is the age that is their problem while some of them don’t even have a working relationship. Some can’t keep a man for 2 months. They can continue talking, while we enjoy our marriage. His grace has kept us no regrets at all.”