Solomon Buchi, a prominent relationship guru known for his honest comments, recently gave some useful advice for men thinking about marriage.
In his most recent words of wisdom, he disclosed that when a guy proposes to a woman, he is not giving her a favor and that it is critical to abandon the assumption that women require marriage to be happy.
Buchi’s speech addresses a widely held misconception: that a woman’s life can only be complete or fulfilled through marriage. He remarked that Nigerian males should quit watching too much Nollywood, where such beliefs emerge.
When you’re asking a woman to marry you, you’re not saving her. You’re not taking away her shame; there’s no shame there. You’re not doing her a favour. Stop sounding like she needs to marry you to get life fixed, and if she rejects you, she won’t suffer, neither would she regret it.
You’re not the only great guy as you’ve made yourself believe. Reduce watching Nollywood too.”