Former Big Brother Naija Season 9 housemate Anita Ukah has broken her silence regarding the intense scrutiny and speculation surrounding her post-show relationship with fellow contestant Topher. Taking to Snapchat, Anita delivered a thoughtful and firm statement to address what she described as “swirling rumours” and false assumptions about their bond.
“Some Things Work, Some Don’t”
In her heartfelt message, Anita clarified that while her relationship with Topher was based on real emotions, it ultimately did not last beyond the show.
“We did give it a chance, but as with many things in life, some things work and some don’t,” she wrote. “If everything was aired, there would have been more clarity on this.”
On Gifts and Alleged Manipulation
The former beauty queen responded directly to claims that she may have “pretended” to be in a relationship with Topher to benefit from fan-generated gifts. During and after the show, the pair were heavily “shipped” by fans and received couple-themed packages — a tradition in BBNaija culture that reflects viewer enthusiasm for potential romantic pairs.
“There was no deception, no manipulation, and certainly no performance for the purpose of benefits,” Anita stated. “Anyone who knows me or has followed my journey understands that I move with intention and honesty, even when it’s uncomfortable.”
“The idea that I pretended to be in a relationship to receive benefits is both hurtful and incorrect.”
“My Values Are Non-Negotiable”
Anita stressed that her integrity and values remain central to everything she does, both inside and outside the spotlight.
“My name, my work ethic, and my values are non-negotiable, and I protect them fiercely.”
She also acknowledged fans who might feel let down by the outcome, offering reassurance and appreciation.
“To those who’ve felt disappointed or misled, I want you to know: I get it. Your feelings are valid and matter to me. But I will always choose transparency over performance.”
A Message of Clarity and Respect
Anita’s statement drew praise online for its clarity, maturity, and refusal to engage in drama. She made it clear her journey on and off Big Brother Naija is about growth, not performance, and that she refuses to exploit fan loyalty for clout or perks.
As of now, Topher has not made a public comment regarding the relationship or Anita’s remarks.