The Mommy Club star and entrepreneur Vuyiswa “Vuyi” Nyauza has laid bare her heart in a deeply personal episode of the Engineer Your Life podcast, opening up about life after loss, her journey through grief, and the emotional toll of social media judgment.
The 40-year-old widow and mom reflected on the pain of losing her husband, a loss that has continued to shape her life in profound ways.
“When everything happened and God decided to take him, I was upset,” Vuyi shared tearfully. “Why are you doing this to me? Why me? Am I not supposed to share my life with someone? Am I supposed to raise my kids alone?”
While fans of The Mommy Club may have seen glimpses of her struggle, this podcast episode revealed a deeper, more vulnerable side of the reality star. She admitted that even though time has passed, the weight of grief hasn’t fully lifted.
“You carry everyone’s grief. Sometimes, it feels a bit heavy,” she said. “But I’m taking it one day at a time.”
Vuyi acknowledged that while she has reached a place of acceptance, moving forward remains difficult. Her children and the memories of her late husband serve as daily reminders of a life once shared.
“Shame On You” — Vuyi Confronts Online Hate
In addition to her grief, Vuyi opened up about the emotional wounds caused by online criticism. She said she is often shocked at how quickly strangers form harsh opinions about her based solely on her TV appearances.
“I would feel flabbergasted that you would feel that way about someone you don’t know,” she said. “Just minutes, you’ve judged me. I would say, shame on you and learn to be graceful, kind, and understand people.”
She was especially critical of those who hide behind anonymous or “ghost” social media accounts to spread negativity and hate.
“If you’re going to say something hurtful to another person, remember that God is there. Some people commit suicide, and others go into depression. Whatever happens to that person, God knows you did that.”
A Message of Strength and Grace
Despite her ongoing struggles, Vuyi continues to push forward, raising her children and working on healing her heart. Her message is one of resilience, compassion, and the need for people to look beyond appearances.
Her story has touched many fans, with social media users praising her honesty and emotional courage.
“Vuyi is showing us what real strength looks like,” one user wrote. “Not the kind that wears a brave face for TV, but the kind that fights to heal even when the world is watching and judging.”
As Vuyi Nyauza continues her journey, one thing is clear: she’s not just a reality star — she’s a voice for grieving women, misunderstood moms, and anyone fighting to rebuild after heartbreak.