Controversial relationship therapist Blessing Okoro, better known as Blessing CEO, has fired back at critics who are rooting for her relationship to crash.
In a video shared on her Instagram page, Blessing, who is currently preparing to wed popular auto dealer Ikechukwu Ogbonna, also known as IVD, addressed the skepticism and negative comments surrounding her love life.
According to Blessing CEO, many people project negativity onto others’ relationships because they are still healing from personal heartbreaks or emotional trauma.
Blessing CEO stressed that disagreements are natural in any relationship, but true love is measured by the ability to forgive and grow together through the difficult moments.
Blessing CEO called on her critics and followers to embrace healing, let go of the bitterness from failed relationships, and open themselves up to love.
Blessing CEO said, “”A lot of you are damaged. When you are damaged anything beautiful becomes too good to be true, being damaged isn’t an insult but a mental and emotional kind of disease that comes from our past pain. A lot of you who have seen celebrity marriages crumble, those ones you look up to in terms of marriage are no longer married.
“Social media has put a lot of chaos in your mind, So anytime you see a lot of beautiful relationships you cannot wait for it to crumble. A lot of you are so damaged that you begin to doubt true love, You become anti love because of fear and past trauma, some of you have not even experienced anything bad but you have taken other people’s experience and begun to live in it.
“You see relationships and marriage, there will always be make ups and break ups, you know why? because it is two different people coming together in agreement. Disagreement is normal, you disagree with your blood not to talk of a total stranger but love comes in when you open your heart to forgive 70 multiplied by 7.
“Let us understand that it is from our choice of a man or a woman we become hurt. Stop generalising it, once you take out lessons from experience you become peaceful, you grow and evolve. A lot of you will not experience love because you are afraid to be vulnerable.
“I thought I should remind you that the act of always thinking negative in the face positivity is a sign of being damaged. I want you to go and heal so that any good thing that comes your way you understand that you deserve it”
