Onwuson Faith Ifeoma, Nollywood actress and digital content creator popularly known as Honeypot, has stirred reactions online after revealing that she does not need long hours of sexual activity to feel satisfied.
The outspoken social media personality made the disclosure while speaking on The Honest Bunch Podcast, where she discussed relationships, intimacy, and cultural expectations within Igbo society.
According to Honeypot, a man’s success in Igbo culture is often reflected in how well his wife is cared for, rather than his outward appearance.
“In Igbo land, you can see a man walking around in shorts, but if you want to know if he is rich, look at his wife. That’s not stupidity,” she said.
“A man’s money should reflect on the woman. It shows the man is doing well. The fact that she has a job doesn’t mean she is not supposed to be taken care of.”
She also shared her views on intimacy, stressing that affection goes beyond sexual intercourse alone. Honeypot described physical closeness such as kissing, cuddling and playful contact as important expressions of love.
“There is kissing, there is cuddling and there is biting. Biting is a form of affection,” she said.
When asked to choose between a wealthy man who lacks bedroom skills and a physically fit man with strong sexual performance, Honeypot said sex is not a major priority for her.
“I am not a sex person,” she stated.
“I can stay months, with my full chest. That is why when I come out and say don’t come into my DM, I don’t do hookups.
“One minute of sex is enough for me. When you are done, come down from my body.”
She further insisted that no one can accuse her of exchanging sex for money, emphasizing that intimacy is not central to her lifestyle.
Honeypot’s candid remarks have since sparked widespread debate on social media, with reactions ranging from support and agreement to criticism, once again igniting conversations around intimacy, cultural values, and modern relationships.