In a recent development, the relationship expert Skuki peeshaun has responded to the assertion made by Apostle Femi Lazarus regarding women’s ability to manage their emotions during menstruation.
Recall that Apostle Femi Lazarus argued that mood swings should not be attributed to menstrual cramps in women.
Femi Lazarus highlighted the achievements of biblical figures such as Esther and Deborah who were able to accomplish significant feats despite experiencing menstrual cramps. Nonetheless, the response to this assertion was mixed, particularly from women undergoing hormonal changes.
Among those who challenged this perspective was the relationship coach Skuki peeshaun, who asserted on Instagram that it is typical for women to exhibit dramatic behavior.
He pointed out that while a man’s anxiety is often influenced by external and psychological factors, a woman’s anxiety can also be affected by these factors, in addition to internal and biological factors.
Furthermore, he discussed how women can experience sudden shifts in mood without apparent reasons, ranging from being excessively happy and nurturing to feeling tense and irritable.
He emphasized that despite some women displaying extreme dramatic behavior, the biological aspect should not be underestimated as it significantly impacts their emotional state.
He said:
“When a man is crasky or anxious, his anxiety is 100% external and psychological (which means he is worried about an issue and it is working him up) But when a woman is anxious, her anxiety can be external and psychological like a man’s, but she now has an extra burden, which is that her anxiety level can also be INTERNAL AND BIOLOGICAL and this is caused by the hormonal variations women go through every 28days.
“A woman can go to bed very happy and wake up, tensed, short-tempered for reasons she doesn’t even know. Other times she can be overly happy and nuturing for no visible reason. Yes, it is true that many women are dramatic to the extreme, but we can not downplay the impact a woman’s biology has on her mood.. unannounced.”
“We have to let men know that it is normal for a woman to dramatic to a certain extent, when she displays this off-moods, he shouldn’t argue with her or talk her down, he simply needs to stand his ground and be firm.. but no scolding or arguing.
His assertiveness would calm her down again, Infact that is what she came for in the first place. His masculine firmness. If we go with this narrative, we would encourage men to snap back and nag whenever their woman is having this NORMAL-MOOD-SWINGS. And when a man responds that way, it adds to his woman’s anxiety. They’ll now be like 2 women arguing!”
