Nollywood actress Laide Bakare has weighed in on the growing conversations about relationship drama among women, calling on women to stop competing over men and focus more on self-development, dignity, and independence.
The actress shared her thoughts while reacting to stories and online narratives about women allegedly fighting over romantic partners, a trend that has repeatedly sparked debates across Nigerian social media.
Clearly disappointed by the reports, Laide questioned why women would reduce themselves to public conflicts over relationships when there are more important things to focus on personally and financially.
“Is it true?” she asked.
“I heard some women have started fighting over men? Kilode? As in what happened to them?”
The actress insisted that women should place greater value on themselves rather than fighting for attention or validation from men.
“We have enough men,” she stated.
“Please my gender respect yourself and stop fighting over men.”
Laide Bakare also encouraged women to focus on improving themselves, building confidence, and investing in their personal well-being instead of engaging in unnecessary rivalry.
“Go and work on yourself, take real good care of yourself, spend on yourself,” she advised.
According to the actress, the right relationship naturally comes when a woman values herself properly and maintains her dignity.
“The right man that will respect you will definitely come around,” she added.
“Please let’s stop disgracing ourselves as women.”
Her comments have since generated reactions online, with many social media users agreeing with her message about self-respect and emotional maturity in relationships.
Others also pointed out that relationship conflicts and public drama have become increasingly common online, especially within entertainment and influencer circles.
Laide Bakare’s statement now joins a wider conversation about modern relationships, self-worth, and the pressure many women face in romantic situations.
The actress, known for her outspoken personality and active presence on social media, has often shared opinions on issues relating to relationships, lifestyle, and women’s empowerment.
