In a recent eye-opening live video, Nigerian musician and internet personality Speed Darlington shed light on the way African men typically interact with women who have children from previous relationships.
Darlington, who is renowned for his witty remarks, asserted that most African men are hesitant to marry women who already have children.
He suggested that only individuals who lack sexual prowess would opt for such a partnership.
Darlington explained that he believes “no genuine man” desires to raise children who are not biologically his own.
He expressed concerns about the potential disappointment and setbacks men may face when they invest in raising non-biological children, only for these children to eventually seek their biological fathers.
His comments prompted diverse reactions, with many expressing disagreement.
Several women countered his argument, sharing that they received increased attention from potential suitors after having multiple children.

