Blessing Obasi, a Nigerian actress and the wife of actor Stan Nze, recently shared her experiences of feeling like an outsider before she got married.
In an Instagram post on Tuesday, February 6, Blessing Obasi talked about the pressures and challenges single women face, expressing that her decision to get married at an older age was more than just a choice.
She wrote:
“You know, I had to jump on this conversation because after several years of feeling like an outsider in a world that often equates a woman’s worth with her marital status, I’ve finally stepped into a chapter that I crafted on my own terms.
“Getting married at an older age wasn’t just a choice; it was a journey of self-discovery, resilience, and breaking free from societal norms that tried to dictate my happiness.
“The pressure and stigma were like unwelcome shadows, whispering doubts and casting long, lonely nights. But in those moments of solitude, I found strength. I learned that love isn’t a race, nor is marriage a trophy for early achievement. It’s about finding someone who understands the chapters of your past and wants to write the future ones with you.
“So here I am, not a bride of youthful naivety, but a woman adorned in the wisdom of her years, ready to embark on a shared journey of love, respect, and partnership. And to those still walking their path, remember: your life, your pace, your story. Embrace it,”
It was a path of self-discovery, resilience, and breaking free from societal expectations. Blessing Obasi and Stan defied the age gap between them and got married on September 11, 2021, in Lagos.
