Nollywood actress Ini Edo has shed light on her inspiring journey to motherhood through surrogacy, urging society to rethink outdated perceptions and stigmas associated with the process.
Speaking at the recent Meet Surrogate Mothers IVF Conference in Lagos, the screen diva emphasized that surrogacy is far more than a clinical arrangement—it is a deeply emotional and human experience.
“She wasn’t just a vessel,” Ini Edo said of the woman who carried her child. “I was involved every step of the way. Intended mothers actively participate in prenatal care, medical decisions, and the emotional journey of pregnancy—even if they’re not physically carrying the child.”
Challenging the common portrayal of surrogacy as an impersonal “baby factory,” Ini argued for a more compassionate understanding. “People forget that surrogacy is an act of love. It’s about someone lending her body so another can experience the joy of parenthood. That is not something to be dismissed.”
The actress called for a “new narrative”—one that prioritizes ethics, legal protections, informed consent, and respect for all parties involved. She praised recent efforts by the House of Representatives to regulate surrogacy in Nigeria by banning commercial surrogacy and ensuring agreements remain altruistic.
“Surrogacy is not perfect, but it’s not a factory either. It’s a bridge—a bridge between strangers who become family, between heartbreak and hope,” she said.
Ini Edo, who welcomed her daughter via surrogacy, also spoke about the emotional transformation the journey brought into her life.
“Nothing gives me more joy than my child. Surrogacy gave me the greatest gift. But more than that, it taught me that family is defined not by blood, but by love, sacrifice, and unwavering commitment.”
In her heartfelt message to others considering surrogacy, she urged empathy and openness. “Before judging, listen. Before generalizing, understand. Your journey to parenthood may not look like someone else’s, and that’s okay. It doesn’t make it less valid.”
Reflecting on her path, she added, “My road to motherhood was unconventional. It was filled with challenges—but also faith, courage, and love. And it didn’t make me less of a mother. If anything, it made me more aware of the miracle of life.”
She concluded with a powerful reminder: “Sometimes, the path to your dream doesn’t look the way you expected. But if you stay open and trust the journey, you may find that miracle you thought was out of reach.”
