Reality TV star and influencer Tolani Baj has confessed that she’s gradually losing interest in the nightlife scene and is now more open to the idea of settling down.
In a candid post, the former Big Brother Naija housemate admitted that she no longer enjoys clubbing and has been forcing herself to attend social outings just to keep up appearances.
According to her, the excitement she once felt about nightlife has faded, and being in loud, crowded spaces no longer appeals to her.
“I gotta start being honest with myself. I no longer enjoy clubbing. I keep forcing it, bruh. I keep forcing it. I wanna see if I can experience some kind of excitement. I need excitement in my life,” she said.
Tolani Baj added that she has reached a point where she would rather spend her time with a partner than party aimlessly.
“What am I looking for outside if I have a partner? I’m done pretending to have fun in the club. I think it’s time to get married,” she continued.
Surprisingly, the media personality also revealed that she’s curious to “try marriage” for a short while — joking that she wants to see if she would like it.
“I want to see if I can get married for like two days just to see if I like it. That’s a scary commitment, y’all. Like how am I not sure that after one month I will not start saying yeah,” she quipped.
TolaniBaj’s revelation comes as a surprise to fans who know her for her vibrant nightlife persona and club DJ career. However, it seems the reality star is now seeking a different kind of fulfillment — one that might just involve love and marriage.
‘I’m tired of clubbing… it’s time for me to get married’ — DJ TolaniBaj declares 💍🎶💃” pic.twitter.com/bauP7nqhXa
— Instablog9ja (@instablog9ja) October 4, 2025
