Nigerian actress and filmmaker Mary Remmy Njoku has shared her perspective on the idea of an “independent woman,” arguing that the concept is often misunderstood and does not fully reflect human reality.
In a post shared on her Instagram page on Tuesday morning, the Nollywood star stated that no human being truly desires to go through life alone, stressing that people are naturally wired for support, partnership, and companionship.
According to her, the idea of complete independence overlooks the basic nature of human relationships and interdependence.
Mary Remmy Njoku further explained that many women do not become independent by deliberate choice, but rather by circumstance.
She suggested that independence often arises when women lack reliable, supportive people in their lives, leaving them with no choice but to handle responsibilities on their own.
Her comments imply that what is often celebrated as independence may, in reality, be a response to absence of support rather than a preferred way of life.
The post has since sparked conversations on social media, with users sharing a range of opinions. While some agreed with her view on human interdependence, others defended independence as a source of empowerment and self-sufficiency in modern society.
Mary Remmy Njoku is a prominent figure in Nollywood, known for her work as an actress, producer, and entrepreneur. She is the co-founder of ROK Studios and has consistently used her platform to speak on social issues, relationships, and the realities of womanhood.
