Nigerian music star Timaya has found himself at the center of online controversy after sharing a blunt opinion about men and relationships.
Taking to his official X (formerly Twitter) account, the “Cold Outside” crooner wrote:
“Any MAN that runs after a woman is an IDIOT!”
The post immediately went viral, racking up thousands of reactions from fans, critics, and fellow celebrities. While Timaya is no stranger to outspoken opinions, this particular comment struck a nerve across social media.
A Divided Reaction
Supporters of the singer interpreted the statement as a call for men to focus on self-respect, ambition, and purpose, rather than chasing romantic validation.
“He’s basically saying, don’t beg for love. Focus on your goals, and the right one will come,” one user commented.
Others argued that Timaya was trying to reframe traditional gender dynamics, urging men to value themselves just as much as women are taught to.
However, not everyone saw it that way.
Backlash: “Misogynistic and Disrespectful”
Critics slammed the statement as misogynistic, accusing Timaya of promoting toxic masculinity.
“So it’s now idiotic to admire or pursue a woman? We’re back to this nonsense again?” one critic wrote.
“This is exactly why many men struggle with emotional maturity and healthy relationships. Not everything is a power play,” another added.
No Clarification Yet
As of the time of this report, Timaya has not issued any clarification or follow-up tweet to explain the context behind his post.
Known for his laid-back lifestyle and brash takes, the singer has often embraced controversy throughout his career—but this post may have struck a deeper chord than expected.
